Ravings and musings and outright wonderings about everything.
Friday, August 24, 2012
A New Adventure
New Adventure – Not Failure
the page and riding off to regroup for the next great Kiser adventure.
Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs,
even though checkered by failure... than to rank with those poor spirits who
neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows
not victory nor defeat. Theodore Roosevelt
And I did win some glorious personal triumphs in the last year as
well as learning new things about myself. I traversed unknown highways alone,
stayed with strangers, and met wonderful people. I relocated my entire life’s
belongings across mountainous roads in the dead of night. I built a chicken
coop and raised baby chicks to lay delicious eggs. Tilled and toiled and became
physically strong again. And, I found that this particular mountain is not for
me. I learned that I can accept that and move on without distress.
I realized that my grandchildren are an immense part of my life
and without them there is a large hole in my heart. It may have been different
if I’d lived a distance away all along, but having been involved in their lives
from the beginning, I sorely miss the football games and the school programs
and exposing them to cultural activities. I still want to show them a simpler,
more sustainable way of living, and I will somewhere in the future. I’ve a lot
of years left.
I’ve learned to research better a living location, that the age of
an area population matters, that a high dropout and pregnancy rate happens for
a reason, and that reason cannot necessarily be excised by one person. That is
probably my biggest lesson, that while one person can make a difference, that
one person cannot change the world alone. It’s a long battle and one must
choose their battles wisely.
So, time to regroup. Headed back to Kenosha, WI but not backward.
Regain some finances and rethink the next move. Thankfully, I have that
capability. Possibly, substitute teach in Kenosha or drive a school bus,
possibly obtain a CDL and travel the country, returning to see the grandkids
every few weeks. Save those finances to settle closer because I need them, and
needing people is not necessarily a bad thing. While I love solitary living, I’ve
learned it doesn’t require ripping out my heart.
Mistakes are lessons if we learn from them, and I’ve learned a
lot. I will miss the beauty of Appalachia but not near as much as I miss the
beauty of my grandsons. Choose those battles and relish in both victory and
defeat, for then we are never truly defeated.